Becoming Over Achieving
- Hilda Yechiel
- Jan 27
- 2 min read
The Endless Cycle of Starting Over
A few years ago, I was in a relentless race for success. Financial stability, fulfilling relationships, personal growth—I wanted it all. I pushed myself, juggling countless activities and chasing goals with all my energy. And yes, I achieved some remarkable milestones.
But here’s the truth: within weeks, it all unraveled. Success was fleeting, and I found myself back at square one, stuck in a frustrating cycle of starting over. Sound familiar?
The Hard Question That Changed Everything
Why couldn’t I sustain my results? That was the tough question I finally dared to ask myself. The answer was a revelation: achieving is not the same as becoming.
I had focused so much on the external wins that I neglected the internal foundation required to sustain them. You see, it’s not just about what you achieve; it’s about who you are.
The Foundation of Lasting Success
Your mindset, character, habits, and skills are what truly hold success together. Without them, even the greatest achievements can slip through your fingers. A thriving relationship, a financial breakthrough, or a personal milestone will only endure if you’ve cultivated the internal strength to sustain it.
Shifting from Doing to Becoming
I realized I needed to change. Instead of chasing external results, I began working on who I was becoming.
- I worked on my mindset, eliminating limiting beliefs and embracing a growth-oriented perspective.
- I cultivated discipline to stay consistent, even on tough days.
- I built habits that aligned with the life I truly wanted to create.
This shift transformed everything. When you become the right person, success becomes a natural extension of who you are.
The Secret to Sustainable Success
The real secret to sustainable success isn’t in chasing goals—it’s in becoming the person who naturally attracts and maintains those results. The effort you invest in your personal growth will pay dividends in every area of your life.
Reflection: Achieving vs. Becoming
So, let me ask you: Are you only focused on achieving, or are you also becoming?
Take a moment to reflect on your mindset, your habits, and your character. Are they aligned with the life you’re striving to create?
When you shift your focus from doing to becoming, you’ll unlock the key to success that lasts.
I am Hilda Yechiel
I Coach Leaders, Professionals, Mom's and Students to overcome their obstacles early enough so they can live a life by design rather than a life by default.
Connect with me today, and together we'll unlock the insights to create a NEW YOU!"
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Hilda Yechiel
Specializes in coaching professionals to set clear boundaries and improve communication, transforming stress into success both at work and home. She has helped 50+ women.
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